Test flake analysis

Flake summary for ubuntu-latest, test-kubo,headers, nightly

     Summary [  43.078s] 176 tests run: 176 passed (1 flaky), 1 skipped
   FLAKY 2/6 [   1.801s] noosphere-ns dht::node::test::test_dhtnode_bootstrap

Flake summary for macos-13, test-kubo,headers, stable

     Summary [ 139.145s] 176 tests run: 176 passed (1 flaky), 1 skipped
   FLAKY 2/6 [  58.360s] noosphere::distributed_stress latency::clients_can_sync_when_there_is_a_lot_of_content

@jsantell can you provide some commentary on the motivation of this change? Most of the context is phased out of my brain from holidays.

Suspecting a possible culprit for the lock inbetween windowing: subconsciousnetwork/subconscious#1008 -- not sure of the current state there, but this at least reasonably maps rocksdb resource lifetimes to the rust structures (originally elided due to stack overflow in early integration tests and a one off comment somewhere suspecting the two related)